Help , im losing my friend?

ok, ill make this short, i was friends with this guy FRIENDS , so we used to talk to each other a lot , like everyday , hang out , just do fun stuff , like 2 years ago we started going out with this girl holy (nt real name) , so he and holy became really close, he still used to hang around with me and talk to me so more than a year ago they had a baby( he is 26 im 21) so then things stared to happened, like holy has trust issues, she goes trough his phone, yells at him, reads his msn, gets paranoid when he is txn , he must ring when she is around, when he is home like 10 mins late she is accusing him of cheating etc, so he got sick of her and he said he is dumping her , but she said if he ever leaves her she will move back to cali, ( we live in tx and she isfromm cali) and he will never see his child again, but he loves his kid so he is trying to make things work, andrecentlyy like few moths ihaven'tt heard from him, so i ask wats up why r u nt talking me, he was like i just wanna make things work with holy so hedoesn'tt really want to have female friends cos she doest like it, ect, i tryed telling him heain'tt gonna stay with her for rest of his life and eventually they will brake up and she will move back to cali but he go annoyed with me, ihaven'tt seen him since november haven spoken to him since april , i miss him :(